An honest look at my money

My numbers are not great. My debt is high and my income is low...only not so much. My income is decent actually, and I should be in MUCH better shape than I actually am. The problem is that  I put 50 dollars to this debt, 75 to that debt, 40 to another debt, and so on like that until I have no money left (umm...edit here..I honestly thought this was true until I typed out my numbers below... I actually have unaccounted for dollars that could go toward debt. So embarrassingly bad with my money here).

 I never really make traction on a debt with paying all of the minimums, but there isn't much leftover after I do. 

Here are my real numbers. I am awful with numbers (big surprise,eh?). I can't make sense of them or keep them straight/organized. 

Income comes from my job and my husbands. 

Income 1 (mine): 2,552.00 paid monthly (teacher salary)

Income 2 (hubs): 1,180  paid the first of the month

                             1, 350 paid the middle of the month  (He also gets a monthly commission check                                     that I don't usually factor in because it can vary greatly.) 

So for the month we bring in (after taxes and insurance) $5,082.00 without commission included. 

Our expenses break down as follows:

Mortgage: 794

Electricity: 160

Gas Bill:   190 (this time of year)

Water:    86

Cell phones: 250

Car Insurance: 102

Daycare:  800

Car payment: 400

CC1: 75

CC2: 79

CC3: 80

CC4: 40

Groceries: 600

Gas: 400

Student loans: 200

Medical bills: 100

Entertainment: 300

Eating out: 250

Unaccounted for: 176

These are raw as they are numbers without having made any adjustments to them. Keeping it real here. 

I think if this were a dear abby column, I would sign off here as "desperate for help". Husband and I have a date to sit down tonight and figure out how to improve these numbers and divide them so that they are paid as we get paid.